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Do You Mind Your Sugar Daddy Having Multiple Sugar Babies? and Why?

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Sugar Baby / 20

This, is something I do not mind. If this is the case though, then I expect my sugar daddy to be okay with me having multiple sugar daddies. However, if I'm his only baby, then he'll be my only daddy. It's only fair if things are played how he plays as well. If he tells me I can't have multiple while he has multiple, then I drop him. I don't play games. It's only fair.

2017-11-14 16:29:15

Sugar Baby / 36

Depends on the arrangements made in advance, if they want to have mutliples I'm fine with that as long as I can have mutliples as well but should always be open to making it more exclusive. I mean who knows maybe that's just the way we both want our relationship to be. But don't tell me I'm the only one and I'm not because if I am exclusive to just u I expect the same in return. regardless how we want things it's always best to be honest and upfront.

2017-11-14 18:14:53

Sugar Baby / 19

No not as long as he doesn't mind if I have multiple sugar daddies as well. I don't really get jealous so as long as I'm being taken care of and spoiled adequately, I have no problem in there being other women getting the same lifestyle. Although if I feel that I am being neglected we will have a problem to remedy. That cure would probably consist of my dropping him and moving on to the next one waiting.

2017-11-15 20:31:29

Sugar Baby / 20

I absolutely do not mind at all. For me, I am at a place in my life right now where I don't want to be fully committed to anyone. That being said, I don't expect you to fully commit yourself to me. The most important thing to me is that you're open and honest about the other sugar babies in your life, that keeps everyone safe and helps maintain trust.

2017-11-16 12:35:47

Sugar Baby / 19

I dont mind the more the better as long as i get what i want and he gets what he wants its a mutual beneficial relationship if he has the available funds to support other babies i dont care as long as i get spoiled down to the t why not share the fun with others the more the better normal relationship are boring sugar is non strings attached no problems with getting cheated on

2017-11-16 12:48:50

Sugar Baby / 18

If my sugar daddy is to have more then one baby I think that's fine :) if it insent something that had been agreed apon as exclusive but I do believe it would be working if he was leading me to believe I was his one and only it's never right to lie like that and everyone should just be honest and open about what's happening in their relationships and itll go much smotther

2017-11-16 18:33:36

Sugar Baby / 24

To be honest, I️ wouldn’t mind my sd having other sb’s. I️ believe that a sugar relationship shouldn’t be taken too seriously. Only spontaneously, lustful, & fun. I️ think it’s about giving each other good company & taking care of our needs. Once I️ have the mindset of settling down, that’s when I️ start getting jealous & over protective over my man. I️ don’t imagine myself marrying my sd.

2017-11-16 20:12:08

Sugar Baby / 23

I would'nt really mind. I don't expect someone to be "loyal" to only me when we're not even on a real long as we make each other happy and make time for each other it's fine by me.i may be a little jealous sometimes, but i never let that get to me. For me it's all about being there for each other in any way, but I'm only cool with it if it's pretty open, that he tells me and the other girls that he has other "sugar babies". I'm not into drama so the more open the more accepting the whole situation is.

2017-11-16 21:47:40

Sugar Baby / 18

I tend to have a very jealous nature about myself even if it's over someone who isn't really 'mine' so yeh I do think that I would mind, however if my sugar daddy wanted other sugar babies I could possibly try to learn how to deal with that. It also depends on what stage in the relationship we are, if it's early on then I don't see a problem but if it becomes personal I would like to be the only one

2017-11-17 04:17:41

Sugar Baby / 20

I really prefer a relationship based on monogamy, it is a safer way to have a good relationship between SD and SB, however, if it is going to be something based on polygamy, as long as people maintain hygiene and responsibility. When you have a relationship like this, the most important thing is trust, and that you know that both parties must be safe, so that one takes care of the other. So while there is responsibility, there is no problem, because you are worrying about your health and that of your SB or babies.

2017-11-17 07:07:12

Sugar Baby / 34

I want my SD to have multiple SBs because i’m aware that my availability is limited and ultimately his happiness is my goal. The SD that I am familiar with can afford this. And if ultimately this means that I will lose my SD to another SB then best wishes to us all! Thats just how it was supposed to be. As long as my intentions are always positive I believe nothing but positivity will come in return.

2017-11-17 10:21:58

Sugar Baby / 22

Honestly, I wouldn’t mind at all. That is their business on if they would like to be seeing more than one sugar baby, it’s all about what daddy wants. If he wanted to get more than one of his babies together at once that’s be alright too, anything to please him. Besides, probably more often than not do sugar daddies want a discreet arrangement, so why not?

2017-11-17 20:22:24

Sugar Baby / 29

I would most definitely mind. He would probably be a busy man so why should the time he gets to spend with me be split in two, three.. Are so forth. Beside if your intimate and he having multiple sugar babies that's dangerous. You can't be too careful these days their is way, way too many disease going around out their to be having way too much partner so if I have to shear then I'm not staying in that environment.

2017-11-18 18:19:36

Sugar Baby / 39

I wouldn't mind so long as we're open and honest about everything. I don't like drama and I don't like having any miscommunication when it comes to relationships. I just want us to have a good time. At the end of the day if and when either one of us is really to just be with one person, we can be open and honest enough with each other to tell that person.

2017-11-18 19:15:56

Sugar Baby / 22

I personally wouldn’t mind at all. I have a lot of love to give and share so I would understand if my sugar daddy feels the same. As long as we both get the support we want from each other in our time then I have no issue with spending more time supporting and loving other people. As long as both partners are aware of the situation and agree they are happy with that kind of arrangement, I have no problem.

2017-11-18 19:43:01

Sugar Baby / 36

I wouldn't mind AS LONG AS it didn't take away my time... Besides I beleived if i have a good charater my sugar daddy will think twice before having another sugar babies...But, if he did I will accept it because it's not a committed relationship.. It's all about pleasing him. And making him happy he will make me happy too anytime we met and no discussing on his activities with his other sugar babies

2017-11-18 20:54:13

Sugar Baby / 30

Yes because once 5get a dose of me you won't need another. I don't like ro share and multiples is dangerous. If he wants these lips to even grace the penis, it has to be mine all mine lol. Yet I understand the nature of the relationship, and his request. I can wither except what is going on or not. Yet I want to know about it. But realoru depending on location you probably can t wait to long for me

2017-11-19 04:30:38

Sugar Baby / 26

Of course not. My sugar daddy can have as many babies as he likes as long as he can afford us all and treats me like an angel . I can care less about what the other girl gets. If we are not in a real relationship how could I make you be loyal to me only? It makes no sense and gets you no where with your daddy unless he’s into that jealousy thing...

2017-11-19 07:32:51

Sugar Baby / 18

That depends on the connection I have with my sugar daddy, but if we aren’t as emotionally close then I wouldn’t mind if there were others, just as long as I’m the cutest. 🤷🏼‍♀️ However, if there’s a bigger bond then I would certainly develop some jealously and wouldn’t want there to be any others. I’m not usually the jealous type but I definitely can be.

2017-11-19 13:38:51

Sugar Baby / 25

Yes I would mind lol . I'm personally a jealous person and I do not like sharing at all. In the end of it all I should be all he needs 😋 there's no need for others when I'll give you everything you want. And on top of that, i would feel like thats stopping him from giving me what i want, when i want it. You cant please me and other females........

2017-11-19 17:34:05

Sugar Baby / 22

Not at all! It's an arrangement between two mature people, you don't have any actual official claim over them. You're not exclusive. If my Sugar Daddy wanted to have more than just me I wouldn't be upset about it. Sure, people can get attached, but if it's not outright spoken, and you're not more than Sugar Baby/Sugar Daddy, than be professional!!!

2017-11-19 20:31:14

Sugar Baby / 29

Personally I would like to have a daddy all to myself, unless he can afford more than one. I would feel like something is being taken away from me ,or my potential to earn more or lasts longer would be compromised . I'm the type of sugarbaby who wants a real connection as well, so to for a sugar daddy to give his attention to more than one would technically be a breach of contract

2017-11-20 03:41:39

Sugar Baby / 23

I don’t mind if he still going to take care of me and all of my needs but in some cases I do if I feel like he’s not going to be able to handle more than one financially. Sometimes a daddy will tell me he want to be my only one and that he don’t want me to be on any sites because he can take care of me so then I will tell him he can’t have any other babies.

2017-11-20 20:16:56

Sugar Baby / 18

All babies have their own opinion on if they care that their daddy has other babies. I personally dont care because i know that we all are just trying to make some money and that we are all in the same boat. However, if you and a daddy have a serious relationship then i do not think it is acceptable because you both have agreed that you want only eachother

2017-11-21 06:28:39

Sugar Baby / 18

No me importaría porque mi relación con mi sugar daddy no es real, es conveniencia. El me necesita por atención y yo a él por dinero. Sería diferente si en algún momento me llegara a enamorar por el, cosa que veo poco probable. También me importaría si al tener otras sugar babies le diera más dinero o le diera más atención a las demás que a mi. Ahí si me molestaría, pero mientras haya dinero y cumpla mis necesidades tanto como yo cumplo las suyas.. no hay problema.

2017-11-21 14:01:09

Sugar Baby / 25

I wouldn't mind at all. In this relationship dynamic I expect it, but I'm polyamorous as is so thats what I prefer anyway. I don't expect to be your only baby, and don't like inhibiting anyone if they meet somebody they could potentially have a future with. I typically prefer to see multiple daddies anyway, so for me this is something I consider a must.

2017-11-22 19:25:09

Sugar Baby / 18

Yes, because that's less for me lol i love getting spoiled! And he might drop me for one of them. And no because sharing is caring as long as he puts me first or gives me more money than the others. Or as long as he is giving every baby the same amount and not giving one person more than the other, he has to be fair and I'll be fair too! But i would want him all to myself

2017-11-22 20:06:25

Sugar Baby / 24

I have jealousy issues. I will probably get upset if he does but then again we aren't committed so I guess thing is, I want all his attention on me and I don't want him doing sexual things with other woman due too STDs and what not. If I have a sugar daddy he is my only attention unless he wants me too have others but again that's between you two.

2017-11-22 20:24:53

Sugar Baby / 33

I don’t think I would mind that at all. From the beginning things like that should be established I don’t think it’s bad to have multiple babies since what we have isn’t a traditional relationship. I’d say as long as he is doing what he is supposed to do for me and I for him it wouldn’t be bad to have multiple babies I’d also like to know if he did.

2017-11-23 17:44:14

Sugar Baby / 28

If it was told to me from the beginning, I would not mind it. But she would also need to know about me and we would really need to discuss about who is fulfilling what need and why he felt it necessary to have multiple sugar babies. It would also be the chance to make a friend out of it and have someone I can discuss about my SD with. Girl talk is always fun.

2017-11-23 23:35:07

Sugar Baby / 24

This is why it's important to make what you want clear from the start. Personally, I don't mind. I'm really not looking for a SD to marry, I'm looking for something casual. If one thing leads to another, then we could change the rules when the time is right. But let's be honest most of us are interested in the financial aspect of this and they're the ones paying for companionship so if they can afford to be kept company by more than one person what do I care? As long as my cut doesn't decrease & the other girl doesn't get in the way of my coin, I'm good!

2017-11-24 16:14:59

Sugar Baby / 33

I don't care. Have as many as you want as long as our agreement isn't being fulfilled. Plus we are not committed to each other. I just don't want to hear about them. Because I feel ure spoiling me when you're with me. Besides whose to say I don't have another sugar daddy. I would show each their own respect and make it about that person at that moment.

2017-11-25 10:25:34

Sugar Baby / 24

I really dont mind if my sugar daddy has many sugar babies... i love me some fun too! I would love to get to know other sugar babies. And what brought them along just like me. I would like to see what they see in there bright future. I love girls too. So thats never a big deal with me. Maybe we can venture together as well. A helping hand is aleays great to have!

2017-11-25 14:04:12

Sugar Baby / 24

I personally do not mind, I find the more the merrier. However treatment should be equal all the way around and not limit any baby to do something if another is allowed to do it. As well as having activities with all the babies together would be fun and interesting for the sugar daddy. This will allow him/her and the other sugar babies to all have fun together

2017-11-25 19:16:31

Sugar Baby / 19

I mean there has to be a limit, I wouldn’t really mind if it was 2 or 3 fuck we could all have fun together lol. But I also wouldn’t mind to be the only one, I love the attention and i want it all on me, I want to get spoiled. But if my sugar daddy wants to incorporate another one I wouldn’t so much mind just keep on giving me my attention and keep on spoiling me

2017-11-25 19:32:40

Sugar Baby / 18

Before you both enter the relationship or sugar situation, you both should determine what kind of relationship it’s going to be ( virtual, Skype, online, pics only , NSA, or a real relationship) I wouldn’t mind my sugar to have more than one sugar baby if we were in a no strings attached kind of relationship, but if were both feeling each other and we mutually wanna be together then I would mind, bc what more sugar could you want ? I’m supposed to be your only sugar right 😞?

2017-11-25 21:15:57

Sugar Baby / 30

Multiple sugar babies can be tricky. Now if he was clear he and said he already had a lot of babies I wouldn't mind. Clearly he can do whatever he's capable of doing. But once he becomes my sugar daddy he will be my sugar daddy. I have more than enough sugar for him. Now WE can have a sugar baby lol.. I won't stop my sugar daddy from doing anything but I can control me.

2017-11-25 21:24:22

Sugar Baby / 25

I don't mind, as its a given basically. If he arranged something is because he has other things to do, im sure that means sharing his time with other sugar babies other than myself. At the end of a day its a win/win, if he helps me i help him, he shares his money with me, i can share my time, support, tender love and care just like another can, you just have to be your very best so wont need anyone else haha

2017-11-26 07:34:01

Sugar Baby / 24

Well at first I thought I wouldn't mind if my daddy had other sugar babies aside from me but now that I finally have one, I feel like we're so attached and I wouldn't want him to have another sugar baby cause am hoping to be all he needs and vice versa. However, in case he really feels like having multiple babies, I wouldn't deny him either as long as he is able to Carter for us all and not complain about it.

2017-11-26 07:36:46

Sugar Baby / 25

If it were a mutually stated agreement then i wouldn’t mind as long as both ends of the deal are being held up. I know how to share, and as long as i still get what i want from the sugar daddy then i don’t mind. Weekly or monthly allowance for each of us, if he has it like that then that’s his business but as long as i get mine then invest fine with it.

2017-11-26 10:34:39

Sugar Baby / 18

Yes I do mind!! If the man has multiple sugar babies it could imply you aren’t suiting his needs which is offensive for one! Although the relationship is meant to be kept with distance and no feelings attached I prefer him to myself. Not just because of jealousy but through self respect as well. If you are his only sugar baby he is also more likely to treat you more often as you’re the only person doing his deeds and he’ll be more appreciative of it. Simple

2017-11-26 16:52:34

Sugar Baby / 37

I don’t mind my sugar Daddy have multiple sugar babies as long as he keeps his agreement with me . First and foremost when it’s my turn I want all my attention and all my funds . I will not be shorted because you chose to have more than one sugar baby . He has to be honest and up front as I will be with him , no lies , no secrets, and we will be just fine.

2017-11-26 17:18:39

Sugar Baby / 24

At the present time I would not know how I would feel about it. Mainly because I'm not in that situation, however if my SD does have another SB I don't want to know about it and I would hope that he wouldn't compare me to his other SB. I would get jealous but I would have to keep in mind that this isn't a "real" relationship. However if he has multiple SB I don't believe it is right if he banned me from having more than one SD unless terms and negotiation has been discussed. At the end I just want both parties to be happy and content.

2017-11-26 20:02:52

Sugar Baby / 29

As long as we both understand the terms and conditions and accept them, then i don't mind a daddy having other sugar babies as long as he accepts that i will have other daddies. But if we were exclusive, only then would it be a problem. In any kind of relationship, communication is a must. It's easiest to lay all expectations out in the very beginning, then if those expectations change, talk about modifying them.

2017-11-26 23:51:31

Sugar Baby / 19

No i would not mind my sugar daddy having multiple surgar babies just because i would have other sugar daddies when he starts not having time for me but if him not having time for me starts to be a constant i would then have a conversation with that sugar daddy letting him know how i feel about the situation &&nd simply have them choose between me &&nd the other sugar babies &&nd of course he would choose me cuz my loven is the shhhh 😋

2017-11-27 09:57:35

Sugar Baby / 29

It is okay if my SD had multiple SB’s. As long as we are open and honest with one another on what’s going on it should be no problem. I would of course still except the same amount of attention he gave when we first met and to keep me happy and I would continue to do the same in return. I don’t think we should be greedy especially when the SD has plenty to go around 🙃

2017-11-27 10:23:13

Sugar Baby / 33

Not one bit i would make it clear that he ain't my only daddy and that it's better to be honest n open about it so that way he don't hide nothing n neither do I... Also that we adults n if we want more then one then that's fine but don't expect me to only have him if he gots others too.. Plus I'm sure if it's a traveling daddy he will most likely have one in another state or two or 3

2017-11-27 15:25:32

Sugar Baby / 23

Unless it’s been agreed upon prior to an arrangement, i don’t see a problem with it. Sugar relationships aren’t a real relationship, and therefore don’t have real relationship characteristics. Sometimes the idea of having several SB/SD’s is more appealing than just one. It’s all based on personal preference and i’m unbothered by it! I don’t expect him to stay solely focused on me if i am not solely focused on him either.

2017-11-27 15:43:57

Sugar Baby / 18

I want multiple suga daddies so I wouldn’t be mad if he had multiple suga babies. Share the love! It’s nice to get lots and lots and lots of attention, especially from new people! No complaining would come from me if multiple daddies wanted me. Hell I would even encouragethe idea of multiple suga babies to my daddy so he stays happy! Yes. Multiple babies or daddies are okay:)

2017-11-27 18:46:01

Sugar Baby / 18

It depends on the situation. Overall, I am a very jealous person, and I do not like to share. What's mine, is mine. But if there is a mutual agreement between both me and my sugar daddy and we both get to have fun with the other sugar babies then I wouldn't mind. ☺ It just depends. I like the idea of having someone to myself but occasionally I wouldn't mind. Or if I was live-in, and my sugar daddy had another live-in as long as it was a mutual agreement I wouldn't mind.

2017-11-27 19:16:40